Jesse James has issued a vague apology to Sandra Bullock and his children, in light of the tabloid claims that he had an affair. In a statement provided to People, James says: “The vast majority of the allegations reported are untrue and unfounded. Beyond that, I will not dignify these private matters with any further public comment. There is only one person to blame for this whole situation, and that is me. It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way. This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me.” Yesterday, Bullock canceled her appearance at the London premiere of The Blind Side amidst the infidelity rumors.
Mar 18
2010
03:59 PM ET
Jesse James issues apology to Sandra Bullock and children
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the pig has spoken! Im glad he didn’t deny it. Sandra, time to move on without him…
It sounds to me like he did deny it. He said “the vast majority of the allegations reported are untrue and unfounded.” There is only one allegation I have heard of and that is he cheated.
But read the next sentence…..
probably that he was involved in some intimate way with this woman sans actual relations
Like Bill Clinton and Monica? Ewww, you think a monkey wrench was involved???
OMG… greatest analogy ever!
To paraphrase Foo Fighters, don’t want to be that monkey wrench . . .
Ah please, I knew this would happen.
She married a greasy slimy 40 year old divorced mechanic with a litter of trailer rats by different women. What did she think was gonna happen? Hey Sandy, marrying white trash doesn’t give you “street cred” and you aren’t Erin Brockovich but thanks to your naivety your life is now an episode of Cheaters. Hello Joey Greco.
I heard that he was involved with the one woman for the last 12 months, and I’ve read an article online that apparantly quotes some of what she said about it/him. Perhaps Jesse did cheat with her, but it’s certainly possible that it was more brief than the alleged 12 months, or that some of the comments she has made are untrue (or at least that her memory & his memory of certain conversations etc may differ). I love Sandra, I wish her the best in this time, I hope she has a lot of support – and that the media give her and the kids privacy & respect.
It amazes me how mean some of you people are. Really, ****? Trailer rats? Clearly Sandra was incredibly in love with this guy (she thanked him profusely in all of her acceptance speeches) and clearly she was blindsided (no pun intended) by these allegations. I hope she keeps her head up and knows how much her true fans really love and support her. : )
That’s what you get when you marry white trash. Sandra sooo not deserves this pig. Hope she moves on to bigger, better things.
meh, she is not that great looking, maybe she should try ricky shroeder
Her husband sounds like an elohssa backwards. Hey Sandra, I’m available!
Sad thing, to me, is that Sandra spoke so eloquently about her husband who “had her back” when, in fact, he actually didn’t. She mistook HER strength for his — something women often do. It’s a shame this came out now, at the time of her most triumphant season. Ah well. Onwards and upwards, Sandy.
I laughed when I heard on TV that Donald Trump said he wished he had “Fired” him sooner when he had Jesse on his pitiful show. Trump is such a true and faithful spouse. (Hilarious Laughter) And then Trump has the renowned ex-mayor of Chicaco this year. Give me a break.
So is Brad PItt a pig too? Angelina Jolie? Hugh Grant? Or has enough time past for you to forgive them for the wrongs they committed towards you. You people make me laugh
Wow. Taking this a bit too personal, aren’t you?
In answer to your queation Shakes, yes they are pigs.
*question*
Yes they are all pigs but at least Jolie and Grant don’t look the part lol.
Are you kidding? Yes, Brad Pitt is a pig. How badly does someone have to treat another for you to think poorly of them. Yes Jolie. Yes Grant. Of course!
how awful, especially after she’s been thanking him and saying how wonderful he is in all her recent awards acceptance speeches. must be humiliating. i feel for her.
Exactamundo! He’s such a PIG. My heart breaks for her.
I so agree. What the h ell was she ever doing with him anyway? He’s creepy.
agree! such horrible timing. right after she has spent months beaming with pride over their relationship. she even apologized for dragging him to these award functions. ugh, at least now she no longer has to cater to his needs. “vast majority untrue”, thus there is some truth to the allegations. sounds awful.
I agree EY, he even choked up at one of the award ceremonies. What bothers me is she can’t even continue to revel in all the awards she has deservedly won. Sad at best. I feel so terrible for her and she has always been a pretty prvate person. AND look who he cheated on her with.Go figure!
I think the definition of unfaithful between them is anything which broke the full trust she provided him. Don’t believe he cheated physically but he did have some type of sexting type relationship, as per her cell phone records. Stupid, immature…but forgiveable (I think this was a year ago, wasn’t it? The girl waited a year to come forward. So I think its long over. She chose now to embarrass Sandra. so sad.)
Well, as these things go, y’know, of course the girl would wait until Sandra won the Oscar to do this. It wouldn’t have hurt Sandra as much, or gotten this much attention/possible book deal/TV exposure/porn career, otherwise.
I agree, she has been nothing but loving and supportive to him and he has seemed to be supportive of her, but this has go to hurt Sandra no matter how much is true.
Given last night’s South Park episode, I find this really ironic…
was thinking exact thing.
Sleazy guys are never sorry till they get caught. Go ahead and forgive him, Sandra, but don’t be dumb enough to believe him.
Perhaps the biggest (potential) tragedy in this situation is the daughter that Jesse had with one of his previous wives. Jesse & Sandra now have joint full custody of the girl (who is now 6), because the mother was a drug addict (although the mother still has visiting rights). Sandra is a second Mom to this girl, and loves her as her own daughter. I hope in this situation that the girl (and her siblings) are put first by Jesse & Sandra – and by everyone else.
agreed! i remember thinking the same thing when Halle Berry split from her cheating jerk, Eric Benet. She had legally adopted his daughter….I wonder if she remained in the girl’s life. Truly the saddest part of all these stories.
so true!
Sadly, for the most part “bad boys” never fully change. They might refine a little, but deep down, there’s a reason they get that rep.
How about you hope to be a man someday. Fool.
Jesse doesn’t deserve Sandra.
“The vast majority of the allegations reported are untrue and unfounded.”
So, you’re not hung like a gorilla?
Ha!
Chewy 1, Jesse James not so much
I thought gorillas were supposed to have proportionately small ones because they don’t have to compete with other males as much as say, chimpanzees. ‘Scuse me for gettin’ all Jane Goodall. I agree. Jesse James is on my bad list now. Harrumph.
Wait – in one sentence he DENIES that the allegations are true, then he goes on to say “There is only one person to blame for this whole situation, and that is me. It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way”. SO WHICH STORY ARE YOU STICKING TO, JESSE????
Well, Jesse’s right about one thing: he deserves all badness that’s coming to him. What an idiot.
What happened to good old fashioned black mail and paying her off as in the days of old hollywood?
Whatever happened to forgiveness?
Although I must say … perhaps the next Best Actress nominee to actively (and obnoxiously, quite frankly) campaign against far superior Meryl Streep performances will think twice. Kate Winslet and Sandra Bullock (2008 and 2009 Best Actress winners)?? Marital strife in the same week? Coincidence? I THINK NOT.
This has nothing to do with winning an Oscar. Most actresses split with their partners whether they won or not.
Try telling that one to Halle Berry
it’s what some call the oscar curse
Chris you’re so delusional. CurScar is the same b*tch who got Kim Basinger, Julia, Halle, Hilary, Reese, Kate and now Sandra ! CurScar even traps men like Sean Penn. Bewaaaaare Hollywood!
Well, Meryl Streep seems to have been with the same guy for 30 years or so, and this despite winning two Oscars.
Monogamy is overrated! So what if he slipped. It should make the bond stronger…
Monogamy may be overrated for some people, but that’s not the point here. It’s all about the terms of your marriage. If you are like Mo’nique and her husband they agree that a slip here and there is okay, then they are abiding by the terms of their marriage and all is good. I have a feeling, based on her current alleged reaction, Sandra signed up for a monogamous relationship because to her monogamy was not overrated, therefore the terms of their marital agreement have been broken and it may not make their bond stronger–it may end it because they clearly want different things.
I feel bad for her because she stood up at all of those award shoes and praised that guy for his support and he sat there accepting it all the while knowing that he had played her. He is a being of extreme low character–that’s the nicest way I can say it.
Cheating should “make the bond stronger”?! Um. Frack off.
Please explain how cheating on someone can bring you closer?
Minnie Swirl, you are right on the money!
What a strange thing to say. First of all, Sandra was way appropriately humble throughout the awards season and numerous times acknowledged the amazing company she found herself in. No one deserves to be treated the way he has treated her…no one. She is unique among the Hollywood royalty. She moved to TX to have some semblance of a normal life and family; she didn’ marry every Tom, Dick & Harry that smiled at her over the years; etc, etc. She is a classy woman and has always maintained her dignity as a human being.
I agree with you Katie. Sandra is a classy woman who doesn’t wear her heart on her sleeve. She finally allowed herself to love someone and “have her back” and the sleezball couldn’t handle it. Like a rubberband that got stretched to his limit, when let go he rebounded back to his original tastes. The sad moral of this story is that a leopard doesn’t change his spots.
very interesting observation.
that was an opinion, not an observation
and it sounds like the opinion of someone who uses it as an excuse to screw any skank that walks by
Yeah right. The Oscar curse made his wang jump out of his zipper! What a load of boloney pony!!
Really? People are so mad about her Oscar win they’d make her feel like the bad guy in this situation?
Danny, you’re an idiot and I’m quite positive that Meryl would not approve of the things you just wrote!
I’m so sick of these guys not keeping it in their pants. If you agree to be part of a monogamous relationship, then stick to your promise. If you can’t, you shouldn’t get married.
+1 +1 +1
Totally agree.
They appeared to be a great couple. I like Sandra Bullock, she doesn’t deserve this.
Mothra I could not have said it better!!!!!!!!!
This is beyond depressing. If a goregous successful woman like Sandra Bullock gets cheated on, what chance do us regular Janes have? Thank you former husband’s secretary… bleah. I’ll stick to my two lovers: Ben and Jerry!
No Mothra! They’ll give you fat thighs!
Too late! lol
Haha.. you’re both funny.
I agree though, what chance do regular women have if even Sandra gets cheated on? Men are pigs.
Mothra – you’re awesome
lol Ben & Jerry are my best lovers as well and are always true blue! It certainly appears that men have found themselves a million excuses to drag it out of their pants with someone besides their wives…is it possible there are still a few decent men left?
The gays.
Nshi…! Too funny! Funny because it’s true. C’mon, ladies, let’s just use men for sex like they do to us! Oh, no, wait, that’ll never work…that’s what they want!
To the nunnery!
There’s always BOB…Battery Operated Boyfriend…
People!!! it’s the nature of the beast!!!! Take them or leave them
OMG! Too funny! Several years ago, I was single by choice (bad marriage, bad rebound, etc.). My sister (who was never single for more than a week), was always harping on me and trying to fix me up, telling me I NEED a boyfriend. I used to tell her I already had two . . . Ben and Jerry. Ironically, I was skinny back then. Now that I’m married, I’m getting chubby! Gosh, I miss those guys!
whay happen to being faithful?
She wanted a “bad boy” and she got one. When will women realize that you can’t change a guy. She got what she wanted. At least that’s what she thought.
Good Point.
My guess is she believed him when he said that he would be true to her and she had no good reason to suspect he would renege on his commitment. She didn’t marry a “bad boy”, she married Jesse James, who said he loved her and wanted to spend the rest of his life with her in a monogamous relationship.
I think you’re right. Sandra doesn’t seem thick to me (although I’m confused why any woman would trust a man who has been twice married before, the second time to a porn star – and only for a year).
@Amelia: it’s called “hope”, which is just as overrated as monogamy.
No kidding. She married a guy who used to be married to a porn star. What did she expect??
what does being married to a porn star have to do with anything? That’s the dumbest assumption I have ever heard
Having a a porn star as an ex doesn’t exactly scream respectability, or someone who follows the rules (such as the quaint notion of fidelity in a marriage) – so yeah, what exactly did Sandra expect?
OK, JoJo, we’ll judge you by the worst thing done by any of your exes, ever. Boy, you suck.